I found this interesting article about certain phases that we are use to saying to our kids for positive reinforcement which actually, according to the author, are not correct for us to say to our kids, even though we say them to our kids with our best intentions.
Click to the link below and let me know your thoughts:
http://lifehacker.com/10-things-to-stop-saying-to-your-kids-and-what-to-say-474962146.
Have a nice day!